Life in a graph – a shocking image!

I had scheduled this blog post for last weekend. Well, that didn’t happen. It didn’t happen this weekend either. It happens today and I am very pleased since it’s Monday and Mondays are hard…It seems like an impossible task to go to bed on Sundays, no matter how much I need the hours. So I figured, why not talk a little about time today. My previous post was all about making plans, schedule to-dos and how to get a grip of what to do and when. Since then I have continued reading and using Lisa Jacobs fabolous book Your best year 2018. It has proven to be a real game changer and I’d like to share a thing from it, a short task that aim to show how I spend the 24 hours on a regular day. At first I was to list the main priorities in life, in order of importance. My list looks like this:

  1. My family
  2. Personal development – learning new things
  3. Creativity – design, art, music
  4. Friends and social life
  5. Health and self-care
  6. Stillness and reflection

Then I was to use a graph to illustrate how I invest time during the 24 hours, and it looked like this:


As you can see (although written in Swedish) the large field on the top right is sleep. The large field on the bottom is work (day job in large company). The small field on the right, between sleep and work is breakfast (categorized as family time). At 6 pm there is dinner time with the family. And now – in the field beween 7 and 10 pm – here are the things from my list, all six of them…

Please take a paus to reflect on that, because I went into shock when I realized how it looks and what it means. Somewhere between 7 and 10 in the evening I spend time with my family, I learn new things, I create design, art and music, I socialize with friends, I perform physical activity and practice self-care and to wrap things up I am in stillness and reflection before I go to sleep.

I think not.

I am still in shock but also very clear about how I want this chart to look like. I am 48 years old and I will now change things around. It might be the hardest thing I have ever done – I don’t have the energy of a 20 year old anymore –  and it might take longer than I want, but I will never forgive myself if I don’t go for it. I will make this chart look different.

I had this idea when I started this blog that I was going to share the building of my website. I will get back to that: I came as far as having built the fundament in Adobe Muse and now I am focusing on building my portfolio. Without a great portfolio there really isn’t much to put up on the site, so that makes sense. I also may be trying out Squarespace instead, since there is a built in solution for web shops. A looooot of time has also been dedicated to research about webb platforms, web shop solutions, payment solutions, manufacturing, print shops etc etc. So many decisions and so little time. Obviously.

See you soon and if you would like to see more of my creative stuff, please check my instagram account @madeleinewidelanddesign.

The noble art of planning

For some of us the noble arts of setting goals, planning and organizing don’t come naturally. I am the kind of person who always seek structure but have a hard time creating that structure. I often get totally lost in the details – what kind of planner do I need, should I go for black or yellow, paper or digital or both, bullet journal or a printed? And when procrastinating gets really bad, I can spend an hour trying to decide if I should start journaling on the left or right page. You get it. So therefore I am extra proud to have overcome the most of my resistance (which leads to procastinating the things I really want to do) and nowadays I am quite good at getting things done simply because I get it on paper. During 2017 I did a loooot of things to get myself from thinking to doing. I actually have a hard time believing that I have done all those things: I read books, took courses and classes, bought utensils, joined communities, tried and practised, investigated and dug deep into myself to find out how to DO IT – not just think it.

It all started with a course by amazing Anna Lovind called The Creative Doer. It is what it says – a course to take you from thinking and wanting to doing what you want and love to do. It was such a game changer for me in many ways, and one of the most important things I learned was to Get it on paper. Get it out of my head and on to paper. I learned how to verbalize my dream as well as plan my days, weeks and months and all of a sudden I started doing things, taking steps towards something I had barely phrased in my mind. In that course community I found my tribe – a tribe that has grown through other courses and other communities and is still growing every day.

My next step towards my dream was the Make it in design courses, created by designer Rachel Taylor and her co-business owner Beth Kempton, focusing on pattern design and how to develop pattern design into a business. The two modules were so packed with useful information, creative exercises and even live briefs from several companies, that I am still catching up with all the material.

During the summer holidays I started reading Freedom Seeker by the same Beth Kempton as mentioned above. The book is a guide to finding out what makes you feel free and in finding that, being able to escape from the cage you’re in and taking steps towards the life you want to live. A bit simplified described but the essence of it, I think. (Hope Beth will excuse my dry language if she reads this!). This book is actually filled with entries that helps a lot in the quest of finding your path. I’ve had so many aha-experiences that I lost count of them…

Not to mention all the amazing courses by Bonnie Christine on Skillshare and another branch of the tribe, her own Roost Tribe. Plus many many other things I have investigated and learned this year.

A part of the timeline I am working according to.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

So to reestablish the connection to what I began this post with – I am planning for 2018 with the help of Lisa Jacobs’ Your best year 2018, Business edition and my new – yellow! – Moleskine notebook calendar. I have slowly but surely learned how to set goals and plan for making them happen, instead of dreaming and putting up obstacles in my mind and get nothing done. I am truly and deeply grateful to all the people I have ”met”, all the shared knowledge and all the love that is the foundation of those tribes. I have no idea where it all will take me but I know for sure that I am on my way!